An Example of How NOT to Build Word of Mouth for a Hostel

You’re lucky I didn’t throw your bag out with the trash.

Those are the words I was greeted with after the final day of Startup Weekend Amsterdam. Really? That’s how you treat your customers? Threatening to throw their bags out with the trash? Yeah, there’s a smart way to run your business. Yes, I’d say Europe needs some customer service lessons. For starters, you don’t generate positive word of mouth by threatening your customers and making them feel like crap. That seems to be a pretty simple concept, but I guess not a lesson everyone has learned.

I realize that checking out in the morning and leaving a bag until 9 pm isn’t normal. That said, I did ask the person working in the morning if I could leave my bag.

They said yes. I didn’t specifically tell him the bag would be there until the evening. The night receptionist told me that “bags can be stored for up to 3 hours after checkout” is written all over signs everywhere in the hostel. That may be true, but I never saw those signs. I’ve been to a ton of hostels all over the world, and never has someone tried to enforce a hard time limit on storing bags after checkout. I apologized for leaving my bag there longer than normal, and he proceeded to tell me that I was extremely lucky this time that the bag was still there. I would have been happy to pay a few Euros for the inconvenience — but instead they jumped straight to making me feel like an asshole. Not the way I want to be treated by the staff of a place where I’ve spent over 200 Euro.

There’s one thing I know for a fact. I will never say a good thing about Cosmos Hostel Amsterdam to anyone ever again. It’ll always be the Amsterdam hostel that I warn people against staying at. Well done, Cosmos Hostel Amsterdam. Well done. You just lost a customer — and all the WOM potential that goes with that customer — for life.

[Photo via http://www.hmtweb.com/]

The Flying Pig Beach Hostel in Noordwijk: The Place You Can Never Leave

Today, I’m finally leaving the Flying Pig Beach Hostel. I’ve spent about 10 days here total over the course of the past 2 1/2 weeks.

If you’ve been traveling long enough, you’ve come across one of those places you just can’t bring yourself to leave. The Flying Pig Beach Hostel in Noordwijk is one of those places. It’s not just me either. Every day, I see someone wander up to the reception desk and say something to the tune of…

Can I extend my stay one more night?

Any chance I can add three days to my reservation?

One more night please?

One couple from Hungary overstayed their intended departure date by a full 7 days. Why? It’s a low key, chilled out alternative to Amsterdam — just an hour away from the strippers and coffee shops of Amsterdam. Life is just comfortable. Get up, go hang out at the beach, chill out and chat with fellow travelers, smoke, drink a few beers, cook dinner. Many that stop here have been traveling non stop every 2-3 days for a month or more and just want a few days of doing nothing and NOT traveling.

I was here for 2 nights back on my first trip to Europe in 2005. It’s still the same great hostel it was back then, maybe even better. There’s a nice bar downstairs. And of course, a smoking room and deck out back (the closest place to buy weed is a 30 minute bus ride away in Leiden). Noordwijk reminds me a bit of Ocean Park, Washington where my dad lives. Sandy dunes, always a breeze, grey overcast skies, and not-so-warm water. But I still love visiting Ocean Park — it’s just not your 90 degree, always sunny, warm water beach.

What are the “can’t bring yourself to leave” hostels/destinations for you?

Figuring Out Life’s Next Step

Matt and Christine got me thinking hard about where my next stop is. Living a nomadic life, the question of where to visit next inevitably arises every few days, weeks, or months. It’s that time again.

With limitless choices, decisions become harder.

That’s the challenge with figuring out where to settle down after my time in Spain and a trip to Bali in August for Startup Abroad. When I can literally go anywhere in the world, where do I settle down to build this travel startup?

Go live in the Big Apple? That’s been on the list for awhile. I have to admit, TechStars spring 2013 in NYC is pretty damn appealing.

Trek around South America for the entire fall?

South Africa?

San Francisco?

Or maybe go back and live in Asia again and eat freaking amazing food at prices unheard of elsewhere in the world. Can you believe I paid 15 euro yesterday for a big dish of cashew chicken? Don’t get me wrong, it was good. But not 15 Euro good. Man, what I’d do to be transported back to the streets of chiang mai for some unreal street food for 35 baht.

Decisions, decisions, decisions. I’ll keep you posted.

An Update to My Travel Plans

After arriving in Stockholm on June 24th and spending 2 days taking shots at the Ice Bar and taking a high speed boat tour, I’ve more or less been in Amsterdam ever since my 30th birthday on June 27. The last two weeks have included a two day trip to Nijmegen to see the Red Hot Chili Peppers (best concert I’ve ever seen), Pearl Jam at the Ziggo Dome, Startup Weekend, a day trip to the Hague and Leiden, and a number of days accommodation in Noordwijk at the Flying Pig Beach Hostel (about an hour from Amsterdam).

But I’m about ready to move on. What’s next travel wise?

On Saturday, I’m meeting up with Anna Zalazar and we are heading down to Ghent in Belgium. We’ll spend a few days there before hitting Brussels and Bruges for a day each mid next week. On the 19th of the month, we fly to Barcelona where we’ll spend a few weeks soaking in the rays, eating paella, drinking Sangria, and taking siesta. Then, I fly out to Bali for Startup Abroad in mid August — which should be an awesome awesome trip.

Onward…

PS: Yes, Europe is expensive and yes my pocketbook is hurting right now.

The Cycle of Being “Busy”

How often do you say you’re “busy”? Do you focus on booking every last slot on your calendar? If so, why?

I’ll be the first to admit it — occassionally when asked how I’ve been, I respond with “busy. crazy busy”. I vow to cut that down after reading NYT’s The “Busy” Trap two weeks ago. The article wraps up with this:

I did make a conscious decision, a long time ago, to choose time over money, since I’ve always understood that the best investment of my limited time on earth was to spend it with people I love. I suppose it’s possible I’ll lie on my deathbed regretting that I didn’t work harder and say everything I had to say, but I think what I’ll really wish is that I could have one more beer with Chris, another long talk with Megan, one last good hard laugh with Boyd. Life is too short to be busy.

Being the entrepeneur that I am, not working (aka being “busy”) is hard for me sometimes. If I’m going to work on something, I’m going to go all in and kick ass. There’s no sense half-assing building a brand or company. Maybe that’s why I’m addicted to travel. It’s one of the only times when I feel okay doing literally nothing for an entire day except sipping lattes, wondering aimlessly around for hours, drinking a few beers, reading for an hour — and going to bed. Being abroad is the only place where “busy” doesn’t creep into my life. Life is about a hell of a lot more than working. I know that. There is nothing I cherish more than time with best friends. I flew halfway around the world to spend time with mine, and I’d do it again in a heartbeat.

At the same time, I have extremely high ambitions in life — I ultimately want to do social venture capital and work with entrepreneurs working on businesses focused on social good. Right now, I’m doing something I love (building Oh Hey World) and that certainly requires a lot of work to execute on. That said, downtime is essential to performing anything at a high level — at least for me. Burnout is a very real phenomenon that I’ve experienced. I need personal reflection time to stay sane. Most of my best ideas (and I have a lot of them) come when I’m NOT working heads down.

For me, it’s about striking the middle ground of accomplishing great things while still spending loads of quality time with loved ones. If I wasn’t working on something I’m extremely passionate about — I’d probably just travel the world indefinitely visiting friends all over the globe. That would be great, but I feel I’ve been given a great opportunity to make the world a better place — and wouldn’t feel right to not take advantage of that opportunity.

There’s no one right way to live life. If you are a doer who wants to keep a full schedule, all I ask  is that you do something you love that makes this world a better place. After all, being busy for the sake of being busy is…well…pointless.

I think this turned into a ramble. Which I guess proves my conflicted thoughts on the subject.

[Photo via Our Out-of-Sync-Life]

What Characteristics Are Needed for the “Perfect” Hostel?

Like me, you’ve probably stayed at hostels all over the world over the course of your extensive travels. Likely, some really great ones and some really crappy ones.

So, what characteristics would make up the perfect hostel?

Here’s my list:

  • Comfy common area with a couple couches
  • A table or two with chairs
  • A decent location. Sure, a great location would be awesome – but not entirely necessary
  • Chill music
  • Character – surfboards, cool artwork, a guitar, etc
  • Bar
  • Awesome staff – this is probably the most important item on the list
  • Local directions, events, and info
  • Common kitchen with a refrigerator to leave leftovers
  • WIFI throughout
  • Organized events (pub crawls, walking tours, dinners) at least every 3 days
  • Great happy hour specials
  • Snacks/food available until at least 2 am
  • Comfortable mattresses with warm comforter (for a cold weather area)
  • Metal storage lockers that hold a regular sized backpack (not a big one), latch, and can accommodate a small lock

What about you?

I wrote about the perfect hostel as a business idea on BusinessIdeas247.com.

When Are You Going to Set Some Roots?

After having spent so much time traveling the last 3 years, I’m starting to get the “when are you going to set some roots?” question when I’m back home visiting family and friends, as if I’m running away from something.

In their mind, they are asking when I’m going to go back to the “real world”.

“THEIR” real world.

Not mine.

As I mentioned, everyone’s definition of life and success is different. To me, life is not all about a big house, fancy car, two dogs, three kids, a trophy wife, and a white picket fence. With a 9-5 job and a $5,000 mortgage payment every month. There’s nothing wrong with that life — if that’s what makes you happy. But once you see all the world has to offer and how free you feel when you own (almost) nothing, it’s a bit hard to go back to that materialistic US lifestyle when I know for a fact money doesn’t buy happiness.

I agree with Matt. I’m not running away from life. Rather, I’m running full steam ahead toward the life I want.

Setting roots will happen. Just not yet.

[Photo via mindfulbalance]

Why I Travel

From time to time, I get asked why I spend so much time traveling the globe. I’ve more or less been nomadic since early 2010 and my travels have certainly changed my life for the better. That said, I’m willing to make the tradeoffs in life required to live that lifestyle — at least until the right business opportunity or perfect girl comes along. But, deep down, why do I really travel so much? I know from posts like this it’s a question every long term traveler ponders from time to time.

There’s no simple answer.

But for me?

The draw to traveling is a mix of self discovery, exploration, and adventure. Just as every person on the planet has their own unique story to tell, each destination has its own story to tell, each encounter opens up a whole new world I didn’t even know existed prior to that moment in time. Even with that said, in the end, my motivation for traveling always goes back to people. I’ve met so many fascinating people abroad — both locals and other travelers — that have opened my eyes to the world around me in their own unique way. The world is a completely different place when viewed through the eyes of people all across the world. Each individual has their own beliefs on what constitutes a successful life. Blend all those together, add your own values & perspectives, and you have your own unique definition of life.

Is my answer perfect? Nope. But it’s all I have for now.

That’s why I travel. What about you?

I’ll leave you with this video.

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Exploring the Wild Blue Yonder